Sunday, January 16, 2011

8 stories to help mother with household chores 1

 8 stories to help mother with household chores 1
primer:
in a beautiful forest kingdom There is a big tall beautiful wooden house, the house bears a happy living, the family has strong father burly, gentle good mother, and two lovely little girl. The two children are twins, looks just like mom and dad are too close to. they called la la, is the sister of one called to, is the sister. in They happened to many interesting stories.
la and come to twins, they look exactly the same father and mother are too close to. One day,
friends pull and to eat dinner, they had 4 years old, has long been on their own to eat with a spoon and chopsticks, and not Mom and Dad fed. Today's dinner is a father to do, very delicious, and my father reading a newspaper after dinner, my mother in the kitchen after dinner washing dishes, Lala, to eat the soon to come to the first finished, Lala finished second.
the children's empty bowl and the table, recognition, said: Dad can reward a star. clean up dishes, and my mother so happy. you can do to help her mother clean the table? br> mother gave them one piece of rag, this is la la, the first time to wipe the table, and they happily took the cloth to wipe the table. on the table to eat the rest of the bones, shrimp shells, meat, bones, vegetable leaves, Garbage should be rubbed so much where to go?
la la, to use their brains to think how the parents usually wiping the table.
la want to come out, trash, and we do it. wipe the table cloth, a brush, one after each other with, soon put the table and cleaned.
walk through to have a look, really clean, clean. Dad usually like sweeping the floor about what to put garbage in the sweep to the sub-Kei, poured into the trash. Although this is the first time they sweep the floor, tools and some do not dig them, but they are not worried, because as long as they has been helping parents with household chores that they will become dry as possible, a good helper to my parents.
as la, to come to dinner today, eat well, do housework and help my mother, my father reward them each of two five-pointed star, five-pointed star painted on their honor roll, very good-looking.
enlightenment story:
We often see this phenomenon, the child was small I always willing to help parents with household chores, long big time can be helped to do the housework but do not want anything done, or even spend money on hiring them to do, some do not spend money on hiring with that parents do not understand why their children do lazy?
there is a psychology of down the mouse accidentally hit the switch, a peanut fell, to eat. conscious rats peanuts and fall safety switch, rats learned to press the switch. The next day, the researchers again placed on trial this little mouse box, the box will not switch off the peanuts but access to electricity, the mouse that switches go by, the results of power a bit, and then re-power, finally gave up the mouse and then the switch was not hard. The third days, the researchers placed the mice again test box, click the switch box will have a peanut fell, the results of the mouse only to starve to death, and never again try to press the switch. This little mouse reluctant to try the state is interest, interest in life, etc.), they are overwhelmed, confused, not knowing what is to be encouraged to act, so they have no confidence at all.
small children, when in fact they could not do anything, do anything perfect as the parents have done so, and even more to help the more busy, so parents looking for less hassle, delay will not want to let the children out of the way to do things themselves. Parents of this approach is equivalent to conditions will persist, and recognition, by no means common in China, some parents snapped Oh, just not clean to give them your encouragement and praise, rather than enthusiasm.
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